What should you do to get ready to make sure your cougar dating is exactly that? Use these ClickDate tips to spice up your next cougar dating night.
Think Things Through
Make sure in your own mind that you are not going too fast too soon for you. There’s no need to feel pressurized into anything at any point. It’s entirely up to you. But if you’re sure, get ready for full steam ahead!
You don’t need a body like a celebrity but you can give yourself a shot of confidence by making sure you look at your best when you get naked.
Sexy Not Sleazy
Choose your outfit with care. Though you may have seduction in mind, you don’t want him to think you are looking to get paid for the evening. Wear clothes that are appropriate to the venue you are going. Save sexy for when he unwraps you. It’s time to get out the beautiful lingerie set you have been saving for a special occasion. This is that special occasion, so go for it!
Your Place Or His?
If there’s any chance he will be coming back to your place, you need to prepare your home as well as yourself and have it looking its best. To be honest, guys about to go to bed with you don’t care about any level of mess. It’s you who will feel better if you don’t come across as a total slob about the house.
If Music Be The Food Of Love…
Think about what music you might want to play when you come in to keep a romantic atmosphere going. If you know his taste that will help. If not, choose the music you like that you know guys are generally ok with too. As for food, make sure you have a few things in the fridge in case he stays for a late night snack/breakfast. Empty fridge is not going to help one hot date lead into another
Interested And Interesting
Now you look good and your place is ready but you still have a date to go on before anything major takes place. No worries if you lead an interesting life anyway, you’ll never be lost for words. Make sure you’re up on what is happening in the world in whatever way that interests you. You don’t even have to talk about any of that stuff. He will love to be listened to but it doesn’t harm to have a few things up your sleeve to talk about in case you need them.
Whatever happens on your date, you don’t want to end up with an unwanted pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease. It’s not romantic but you can’t ignore the need for protection especially with a new partner. Be safe, and don’t rely on him to have what you need.
If you’re nervous, following the steps here will help increase your confidence – you’ll be looking good, your place will be looking good and you’ll have something to talk about up your sleeve. Other than that, tell yourself you’ll be OK and you’ve done everything you can. And besides there’s something engaging about a few nerves. If you’re worried about your performance in bed, don’t be.
Try not to leave it to the last minute to get ready so you can take some time to sit back and relax before your date. How should you relax? Do whatever usually works for you.
Enjoy Your Date
Don’t spend the whole date in anticipation of what you will do later. Enjoy the cougar dating for its own sake and if it leads the way you want it to, so be it. In any case, you can flirt to your heart’s content not worrying about leading him on. You’re ready. Enjoy your hot date!