There’s actually a lot that’s different about older women dating compared to younger ones. Most men don’t realize that as women age their tastes for what they want in a man change as well.
ACT LIKE A MATURE MAN, NOT AN IMMATURE BOY
You need to show her you’re mature and not some school boy just looking for a quick sexual experience to run and tell your friends about.
You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Make no mistake — older women are looking for men, not boys. She has needs and a boy is not one of them. Nothing is more attractive to her than a young guy who can fill her needs as a man and in the sack.
DON’T DISCUSS HAVING A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
It’s going to end eventually, so don’t talk about a relationship with her. Don’t talk about how you want to be with her. Don’t talk about your feelings and emotions and how you’re falling for her unless she does it first.
She’s an older woman, and you’re a younger man. She’s looking to enjoy herself because most of the men in her age range are not in the physical shape she desires and are already broken and destroyed. She doesn’t want to date them.
She’s turning to you for your enthusiasm in life.
SHOW HER THAT YOU’RE AMBITIOUS
Part of the turn-on of a older women dating is her intellect and accomplishments. In order to succeed, she probably had to be smarter than the men around her. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly. If you have goals and tell her about them, it will definitely turn her on.
BE 100% HONEST WITH HER 100% OF THE TIME
Older women have an extremely sensitive bullshit detector, so be 100% honest all of the time. They are more appreciative of open communication. If you want to have sex with her but don’t want to be her boyfriend, tell her. You’ll be pleasantly surprised by her response.